A big thank you to Jocelyn at shewhohears/aspiritualwanderersperspective for the nomination. “Joss” is a woman who has struggled with homelessness and addiction. She is open and honest when she writes about her struggles and her determination to make a better world for herself. It is heartbreaking but also inspiring. If you don’t already follow her, give her a read.
The Rules:
1. Display the award on a post.
2. Thank the person who nominated you.
3. Share 7-15 facts about yourself.
4. Nominate 9-15 bloggers for the award.
Facts About Me:
1. I was diagnosed with an almost perfect eidetic memory. (Had I honed it, I might could be working for…I don’t know…somebody who gives a shit?)
2. My ring finger is longer than my index finger on both hands, which supposedly means that I am charming, pragmatic, incredibly compassionate, an excellent problem solver and I would make a great engineer, soldier or CEO.
It says if you are none of those, it may be time to re-evaluate. (What the fuck does that mean? Chop off the tips of my fingers?)
3. The older I get, the better my eyesight gets. (Now, if everything else begins to regenerate, you may have to start calling me Benjameena Button.)
4. I had natural childbirth with all four of my children. I never screamed once but I was screamed at and admonished for asking for a sip of water. (If I could do it all over, I would say “bring me some drugs and while you’re at it….tell that piece of shit asshole to get the fuck out of here.”)
5. People have looked at me and said “you don’t have a mean bone in your body, do you?” (True…but if you betray me or fuck with one of my children, I will tell you to be afraid. Be VERY afraid.)
6. I have been told that I would be an excellent investigative reporter or an undercover police officer. (I can go from my sweet Southern Belle “I have always relied upon the kindness of strangers” to a badass who will say “I will drop you where you fucking stand.”)
7. I had Scarlet Fever when I was a child, which went untreated and consequently damaged my heart. I now suffer from SVT. (Hey. After having being damaged and broken so many times, if my poor little heart can still beat 220 times a minute, I know I’m not dead.)
8. I love to walk through The Home Depot and Lowes’. I also love it when some little snot-nosed guy asks where my husband is, if I have a question. (“See this chainsaw, Jack? I know how to crank it and I know how to use it. If you ask me that again, I am going to cut off all the protruding parts of your body and that includes that itty bitty thing in your pants.”)
9. I love potted meat, although I don’t eat it anymore. It was one of the few “meats” that my grandparents could afford. (For those of you who don’t know what it is, I think it’s made from frog hairs, fish eyes, chicken beaks and discarded penis foreskin. Yum.)
10. When I was born, the doctor told my mama and daddy that they had a ten pound baby boy. (Since I’m a girl, could it be possible that when the circumcision was being performed, the scalpel slipped? Hey. Maybe my little dingy ended up in a can of potted meat.)
My Nominees:
I nominate anybody who would like to participate.
This is great! Especially the snarky comments in parenthesis. Love it!
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I love that word…snarky. I’m going to have to remember it. Thanks 🙂
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Haha! Love the answers!! You are a truly interesting person, Laurel. 😉
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Thanks, Sam. 🙂
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Yay! Congrats! Love your facts. The very fact that you can make me smile as I currently am enveloped in darkness, says something extraordinary about you, in itself! Tomorrow Sunday, I hope to have one happy post aswell as one or two dark posts. Yes, that is how effed up I am! LOL. Big hugs and a big congrats on nominations, much deserved. 💙
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I’m glad I could make you smile. It was kind of tongue-in-cheek.
Want to email me and talk about it?
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Yes, we have a saying in my language, which I have NO idea how to translate into English, well the literal translation is that a person “has a fox behind his/her ear”, that is to say they are either very clever, sneaky, or just resourceful, (can also mean funny, I think). I always think of you when I think of that expression, in a good way, of course. 🙂 Thank you so much, I feel pretty “ok” right now, considering. Last day of vacation time, so that sucks of course. Might have to post about that. But I have to decided to make one “funny” post and one “rant” post today lol. Thank you for being such a kind friend. Hugs!!
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I like that…”fox behind my ear.” LOL I did see the post of your little kitty….my ferret used to do that. Too cute!
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Indeed, too cute! Animals can be such a source of joy. 😁
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Some of them….the animal I was married to…not so much. LOL
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Yes… some animals are less pleasant LOL 😂
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Congrats Laurel! I enjoyed reading about you!
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Thanks, Lisa. Trying to come up with facts about myself is like pulling teeth! LOL
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Lol. I know what you mean!
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Congrats – great answers! 🙂
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Thank you so much!
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Congratulations! I think you gave the best responses ever! I think you’re lovely. No. 5 scared me a little though! 🙂
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Thanks! (I had to go back and look at #5.)
I just didn’t let anybody mess with my children. They used to say “obviously you don’t know who my mom is.” LOL
And…after the shit the Loser pulled…he found out in a hot minute that after forty years of his tyranny…I finally pushed the fuck back. I no longer “shut up” as he once said.
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Congratulations! You never screamed or groaned even once ?
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Never. I just did what you’re not supposed to do…held my breath. Besides…with an ex like I had…if I had screamed or cried…he most likely would have slapped me.
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Slapped you for being in pain ? Omg. I remember just breathing steadily as I didn’t want to use any medication. Did both of you wanted kids ?
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Yes. He was “supposed” to have boys because that’s what he had been taught by his mama. Hmm. Had three girls. It was my fault because I was too skinny…and I was too skinny because I didn’t know how to cook….but the best was….
I was begging him to ask the nurse if I could (after almost 28 hours of labor) have a sip of water.
He threw his book across the room and said “just shut up and have the fucking kid.”
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I was told you couldn’t even have kids if you were too skinny. He was reading while you were in labor ? Omg….did he even support you?
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My children were all relatively small. I was as health as a horse…just thin. If you call yelling at me support….well, yeah. I guess he did. When the second one was born, he left that morning, went out drinking with one of his buddies and never came back until the next afternoon when it was time for us to leave the hospital. He was a real prize.
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Was it love that made you stay? Something was just seriously wrong with him. It’s like why bother having children?
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No. It was four children and a lack of options…plus…I took vows. I always thought that some day he would change and there would be time for me. He only had time for his parents and his tramps.
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It was more of keeping the family together I take it ? I’m so very sorry. Seems he believed himself superior and women were only for breeding. I wonder was he ever around with the kids ?
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He definitely thought he was superior…and no…he wasn’t around for them except to ignore them or yell at them. Now that’s he’s retired and trying to impress his tramp, he’s pretending to care about them…and they’re eating it up.
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So he’s doing penance. Wonderful. Better late than never eh? Single parenthood isn’t easy but it’s done…
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Oh no…he’s not doing penance…I am.
He still has the love and respect of his friends and family…and my children…he’s retired…shacking up with the WTC…made sure that he and that WTC are #1….his life is GREAT!
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Congratulations on yet another award.
Great learning those little tidbits about you. Hope you’re having a nice day. ☺
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Thanks! 🙂
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Love this.
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Thank you 🙂
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Congrats my dear. Everyone thinks you are a sweetheart.
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Then……I’ve really got everybody fooled, huh? LOL
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lol
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